What to Focus on During Sex | Last Longer with More Pleasure

A lot of men have been telling me they're starting to be able to control their ejaculation when their self stimulating but when they're having with their partner it’s much different story. You’ve still have troubles there.

I just want to share a bit of my own insights and things I think you’ll find helpful to integrate the Sexual Kung Fu practices into a relationship with a partner. Because in Sexual Kung Fu we have all these techniques, there are all these practices of foundational training because there’s a different stage of development to be able to handle a high charge of sexual energy without ejaculating as a man and to be able to do that comfortably over and over and over again. Ideally, you have a strong daily practice, whether that’s breathing exercises, you’re doing qigong, you’re working with the microcosmic orbit, you’re working with the testicle breathing practice to move the sexual energy through your body and working on...

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HOW TO HAVE ENERGY ORGASMS

Most men are stuck in a very limited experience of sex and orgasm. The reality is that there is an entire universe of sexual potential available, which most men have never experienced. By expanding your awareness, getting out of goal-oriented and fantasy driven sex/masturbation, and opening to a new experience of sex, you can tap into powerful states of energetic orgasms.

So as men, there's often a lot of frustrations in our sexual experience. A lot of which is due to how we’ve been conditioned to see sex and how we’ve been conditioned especially into daily sets of completion and ending in the act of sex which is often been to have an ejaculatory orgasm.

When I was young, when I was a teenager and I discovered masturbation, I was actually having dry orgasms before I was having ejaculatory orgasms. And so I was naturally multi-orgasmic when I first became sexually active we could say, but I had this expectation because I was watching porn and I could see this fluid coming...

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What Causes Premature Ejaculation?

 Why are a lot of men struggle with lasting during sex and what you can do right away to start lasting longer in bed? Understanding ejaculation control and some of the common causes of premature ejaculation, it's important to understand the human nervous system. Don't worry I won't get too technical with this, but it is some important information that you want to know.

 

There's the parasympathetic nervous system and the sympathetic nervous system. The sympathetic nervous system is the fight-or-flight response. It's primarily dominant when we're feeling stressed, when we're feeling fearful, afraid for our lives and a lot  of people in this modern world are stressed out. There's a lot of anxieties, a lot of fears, and this is causing many people to be completely stuck in a sympathetic nervous system. The fight-or-flight response and the ejaculation function is connected directly to the sympathetic nervous system.

 

The parasympathetic nervous system is the rest...

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Dangers of Semen Retention

People often ask me if there's any dangers to practicing semen retention and there are some potential negative side effects.

 

Semen retention isn't just an easy fix-all  for everyone. There's some certain dynamics that happen when you start to retain your sexual essence that you really need to be aware of so you don't amplify negativity in your life.  It's important to understand that when you're practicing semen retention, you're simply building up sexual energy, you're simply ‘adding more fuel to the gas tank’. This isn't inherently good or bad, you just have more energy to express yourself in whatever way that you. It’s the equivalent of giving someone a million dollars. Does that suddenly make them a good person, or fix everything for them? Definitely not! Some people are going to do amazing things with that money, some people are going to improve themselves, improve their community, and change the world. Some people are going to do horrendous...

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